Is forgiving your abusive parent(s) necessary for a fulfilling life?
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This is a heavy topic, especially for any reader who wonders about this question. Given the lead up to a time of year that emphasises forgiveness, it seems timely to put something out that might help readers grappling with this dilemma. Due to the sensitivity of this topic, I ask you to refrain from asserting religious dogma as if it’s the only way for someone to approach their unique situation. What works for you is for you alone. I am certain that readers facing this situation would benefit from the wisdom of those who have healed, resolved this conflict, and have embodied peace.
I occasionally receive questions from readers about how to heal their fractured relationship with their abusive parents and if they should forgive them.