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Based in Paris's avatar

This is helpful also for those who might need advice or a brief venting session (I have opinions on "venting" as well but we all need it at times).

When you need to talk through or share, I might suggest saying to a friend, "I had a frustrating day at work. Do you have 10 min. for me to share?" or "This client is challenging, can I share my plan for how I'll approach it?" And then limit your kvetch to 10min.

This might not work all the time, but it contains the conversation.

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Andy's avatar

I have a friend who fits the bill. I often think, “I’m his friend, but he’s not my friend.”

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