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James M.'s avatar

I really think that this is a symptom of female intrasexual competition: high status women are signaling their possession of all of these perks and traits, and the rest of the ladies are internalizing this (to some extent) and trying to replicate it.

If I tried to simulate the examples I see on fitness Instagram I would've died already.

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Nathalie Martinek PhD's avatar

This is exactly what’s going on. I’m seeing this play out right now while I’m in my own spiritual immersion in India. Adult women with so much still acting like it’s high school

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Audra Worlow's avatar

Love this article. I think my greatest achievement in life would be to raise a well adjusted adult who knows herself.

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Rupi's avatar

Really appreciate this topic and the insight you're bringing!

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Nathalie Martinek PhD's avatar

Thank you for listening in Rupi!

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Kate Wand's avatar

Ooohhhh I am excited to listen!!

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Nathalie Martinek PhD's avatar

I’m excited for your feedback!

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Joy Goldstein's avatar

Great piece.

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Nathalie Martinek PhD's avatar

Thank you Joy!

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