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Rooster's avatar

Man, it just makes me think how incredibly toxic social media is. In so many ways, it can’t NOT be black & white. It can go sideways in a hurry. We’re constantly forced to confront trolls of one type or another. I’ve been incredibly fortunate that I’ve *somehow* managed to avoid this for the most part. But when I see you or other good people get confronted by one, it’s really been affecting me.

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Andy's avatar

I would add to your list “difficulty paying compliments.” Maybe a subset of the “black & white” point. Narcissists often feel that if they pay someone else a compliment, it’s a zero sum game and they are by default demeaning themselves. “You have a nice voice,” means “I don’t have a nice voice.”

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