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Peter Nayland Kust's avatar

I'm going to begin with my comment from when you first shared his tweet:

"So Scotty is upset because the mother of his 8+week old infant is too tired to polish his knob.

If he's not too tired to have his knob polished working to feed mother and child he's already blowing his most crucial role as a father of infants.

Moments like these are why Gibbs would smack Donozzo upside the head."

Fatherhood is not an accident of biology. Fatherhood is not some random consequence. Fatherhood is an aspiration. Fatherhood is a goal.

Fatherhood is, in many respects, why men marry, and why men build families.

Fatherhood is how men get to pass a part of themselves into the next generation. Not just their DNA, but their knowledge, their skills, and hopefully a bit of their life wisdom.

It seems Scotty lost the narrative. He lost sight of why he married in the first place. (It certainly was not sex and companionship, as in the modern era it is virtually certain he had those before marriage).

Men and women marry in order to build something. Call it a life together, call it a future, call it a family, but even among the wokest of the woke marriage is still a union with a view towards a future "something".

Men should build. That's what men do.

Scotty needs to get busy building a future for his child, and quit power whining about getting the very thing he sought when he put that ring on his woman's finger.

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Erek Tinker's avatar

I think his main problem was talking about cheating in that short of a span. Two months and he's already ready to cheat?

However I don't think the Internet would have been kind to him either way. "How dare you express needs while being a man? Women's needs are more important than men's needs, and baby's needs even moreso!", society generally looks down on men for expressing unmet need at all. Especially when they are rivalrous with a woman's or child's needs.

I hope he's getting up to change some diapers at night at least though.

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